Thank you, grandparents.

From Ben:

Day 4 of the single life, and I’m in a better mood, despite having a “discussion” with my mom.

Josie is down at my folks’ house, while Kim is in DC and I’m at home, doing home improvements during the day and working at night. Kim says she’s feeling better and fighting through that illness. I feel things are starting to sew themselves up.

As for Grammy and Grampa, it’s been a long time since they took care of a baby. The last one with me, and that was 35 years ago. Things have changed since then, but all-and-all, my mom and dad are doing a great job. I think they have forgotten how exhausting it can be taking care of an infant. It’s ironic that it was my mom who told me that raising a child is tough. And now, it me reminding her of that very fact.

But Kim and I can’t thank them enough for what they are doing. I owe Josie’s grandparents (including Kim’s mom) the world. After all, Kim and I are trying to raise Josie the way we were raised. That’s a tall order, because they set a pretty high bar.

And as for that “discussion” we had earlier in the day? Well, I can relate. Sleep deprivation can do nasty things. I think the key for my parents to remember is to enjoy having their grandchild in their house. They need to relax and not put so much pressure on themselves to take care of Josie. Our daughter is a strong and vibrant little girl. She also shows signs of independence. Josie teaches me that everyday.

Well, the TV repair man show be arriving soon. Not that we needed the TV.